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          Love don't give us the promise of forever, but having faith on it makes us believe that there is.

Love is not a one-shot deal that you have to get right at first. You will always make mistakes and find your ideal partner. Love is also a process of finding your way, finding the right one.

        The great mistake we'll make in a relationship is when we look at somebody else other than our partner to satisfy our emotional and physical needs. The second mistake is when we consciously allow ourselves to be the object of these emotional and physical desires. We can never be certain of our relationships because not all of them are built to last our lifetime.

      We have to constantly nurture it so it can grow and we can grow old with it. In the midst of despair, pain, and sorrow, someone comes in our life and gives us strength to believe in life again. The love they give us gives us a blind faith that helps us believe in ourselves again, that we can make our dreams come true. Love can be the bet thing that will ever happen to you. More often than not, your lover is also your bestfriend, one who will stand by you through thick and thin.

       Most ordinary relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods. The truth is you will not ran out of goods if you believe you won't. People cannot change who you really are. You just have to tell them and be honest about the real person behind you. You cannot hide in your cloak of deception forever.

      You deserve to be happy just by being yourself. A relationship is a two way street. It's never all your fault or the other person's. You go into the relationship together and work through it all together. And remember, the best relationship is one w/c your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. When we begin to put so much weight on what others fell and think about our relationships, we become distracted and lose our own perception of our partners.

     If you choose to fight for love, then you should be prepared to face the consequences and risk associated with it. But if you choose to follow tradition over the dictate of your heart the you also have to be prepared to lose someone you love. Let us always remember that, in the end it is not how much love we have received that would count, but how much love we have given and how much more we are willing to give even without the promise of earning it back.

       We constantly have to make an extra effort to make others feel that they are important to us and the small things they do are appreciated. The greatness of a relationship is built on the foundation of small acts of kindess, love and compassion. Whatever relationships you have attracted in your life at this moment, they are precisely the ones you need in your life at this moment. There is a purpose and meaning behind all events, and this purpose and meaning develops you as a person and as a lover. True love only comes once in a lifetime, so take it as it comes along and enjoy every bit of it whille it is still burning strong.. This is the true measure of love: When we strongly believe that there is no one else who could give as much love to our partners, nobody from their past, present or future.. When you look into the eyes of your love, you see forever, you see warmth and safety, you see two hearts beating together for each other, for the rest of your lives..

       If you love someone, show the person your love everyday and in every way, because all the wealth in the world could never bring that person back when lost.. You may find peace in loving someone from a distance and not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow.. In the middle of this world full of hurt and sorrow, there is one question that would make you think: If the world ended today, would you be at peace with the amount of love you shared?

       Did it ever cross your mind that the greatest love a father can give to his children is to love their mother? We have to remember to always mean what we say, because the words that come out of our lips mean nothing if they do not come from the heart.. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.. To let go of someone doesn't mean that you have to stop loving. it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back..

      The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance; far enough to allow each one to grow but never too far to feel the love within each others being.. Go for the person of deeds and not for the person of words, for you will find rewarding happiness not from the person you love but from the person who loves you more.. Always keep in mind that trust takes years to build, but mere seconds to destroy. And then it takes you even longer to rebuild it.. Love is like a road; either you travel it and marvel at the wonders it brings or you dont travel it and wonder what it would be like.. When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.. Remember that the problems in your relationship are not given to you to destroy you, but to make you better persons and strengthen your bond of love..

       When our feelings get too strong for a person, it is always wise to stop for a while and give our hearts a time to breathe.. Lets take the time to use our mind to weigh our situation based on reason and not on emotion.. When traveling the path of life and finding love along the way, everything will look new and different.. Little do you know it is the same old landscape you used to see all the time; love has just given you new eyes..

       Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and consider what your mind tells you. Listen not only to your feelings, but to reason as well.. To love is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and trust one another.. If you cant do all of these, then you might want to consider if you really want to be with each other.. Nothing could bring more contentment than seeing the love in your loved one's smile and knowing that smile is for you.. Love does not just last by itself. it is our intention to make that love last that determines whether it is going to grow strong and last long.. Breaking up is not always a bad thing.. instead it makes you a better person, helps you realize your mistakes, and prepares you for your next relationship.. Keep in mind that everything happens for a reason..

        The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before.. There may be loves found and lost, and your heart may break many times, but now, let the hope of love come and make you smile.. Sometimes you would feel like you want to show that special someone why you love him/her right then and there but it actually takes a lifetime to prove your love to that person.. Don't be discouraged.. because that's the beauty of love and what makes it last.. Dont be afraid to love with all your heart, because you never lose by loving.. You always lose by holding back.. People often ask me what the best way to love is..

          After considering everything that comes with love, I think it is safe to say that the best way to love is to love like a child: pure, innocent and without hesitation.. Don't be afraid to get your heart broken because one who has never experienced pain brought by love has never really learned how to love.. If you have reasons for loving someone then you are using your mind.. If you cant find the reasons why you love someone, then you are using your heart..

         Try to take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship.. if you find out that you still care for the person, then there is no doubt that it's love that you feel.. A person can be in love with someone forever till the end of time, but if that person doesn't tell or show his/her feelings of love, it will be just another person living in a dream, lost of true love we can never be certain of our relationships because not all of them are both to last our lifetime. We have to constantly nurture it so it can grow and we can grow old with it..

       The love they give us and faith that helps us believe in ourselves again that we can make our dreams come true.. Love isn't always an easy road to pass through.. if you find yourself confused about your path, take a minute and let love help you find your way.. Love can be the best thing that will ever happen to you.. More often than not, your lover is also your best friend, one who will stand by you through thick and thin.